As a local church, we understand our mission as “To glorify God by being disciples in a disciple-making community of Jesus Christ.” This means that as a community, we continually seek to establish and equip one another, as well as evangelise others winsomely to be followers of Jesus. But how does a disciple look like? How do we know whether we have hit the mark?
Well, there are at least four integral aspects of a disciple of Jesus
While these are four different aspects, they are also very much integrated. In this regard, we seek to develop each aspect in a holistic manner. We encourage our believers to be taking personal ownership of their spiritual formation and growth and the church seeks to work alongside the disciple to provide the community and the resources for such nurturing.
Of course, each of us is at different stages of our spiritual formation. Some of us are new disciples, while others are maturing disciples. Although we know we will never become fully mature on this side of heaven, it is still our goal – to be fully mature disciples of Jesus.
A maturing or growing disciple is someone who is a follower of Jesus Christ and who is keen about his spiritual well-being or spiritual formation. Spiritual formation is a lifelong process of becoming more like Christ, reflecting more and more of his image in every aspect of our lives. Jonathan Edwards, the great eighteenth-century Puritan preacher and leader of the Great Awakening, did a weekly self-check, summing up how he was doing and seeking God’s help in the process of a growing number of personal resolutions. At the age of seventeen he penned twenty-one resolutions by which he would live his life. While it doesn’t take twenty-one resolutions for us to live a spiritually transformed life, it certainly requires that we resolve to daily attend to the state of our souls.
How do we know that we are indeed growing as disciples? Well, growing disciples are fundamentally marked by a deep desire to: i) love God; and ii) love others (believers and pre-believers). In turn these are evidenced by the fruit one produces in one’s life (such as a godly character; God-honouring lifestyles and relationships, winsome demeanour, etc).
In order to produce such fruit, one is totally dependent on the Holy Spirit. Yet at the same time, one needs to cultivate suitable spiritual disciplines and practices so as to allow the Spirit to undertake His transformative work. Some specific characteristics of a disciple include:
Incidentally, these characteristics are consistent with the Core Values and Mission of the Church, which expresses our aspirations of commitments to worship; the Word of God; grow spiritually; prayer; build godly families; strengthen biblical community; serve; share the gospel; and make other disciples of Christ.
In order to assist you take stock of your personal spiritual progress and where God wants you to work on next in your life, this self-administered inventory has been designed. Sections 1 - 5 relates to how we grow. Section 6 relates to how we serve and Sections 7 - 8 to how we reach out to pre-believers and reproduce as disciple-makers.
To make use of this GRIP well, please note the following:
We invite you to commit this process to the Lord in prayer. Please begin when you are ready.
Go through the questions and rate yourself between the score of 1 to 5. In order to have a true assessment of yourself, try not to take more than 10 seconds to answer each question.
The questions you have answered cover eight characteristics of a disciple’s life. The score of these areas will indicate what action(s) you need to take for each area. Besides the absolute scores, you may also want to compare each category with the Scores of the GRIP you have done previously to see how you have grown. You are encouraged to share with or get assistance from any one of the church staff team members, church leaders, CARE Group leaders.
I constantly evaluate my life and submit every area to Christ as my Lord and Master.
I live daily with the assurance that God the Father loves me and will provide for me.
I worship God daily through personal adoration and praise of Him.
I attend the weekly worship service on Saturday/ Sunday
I give a portion of my income to God cheerfully and sacrificially as part of worship.
I am conscious of my brokenness and regularly examine myself to repent of my sins.
I seek to obey God by doing what He wants me to do, even when it is not my wish.
CLOSEI read the Bible and journal what God says through the Word daily
I meditate on and memorize God’s Word regularly.
I systematically study and conscientiously apply the Scriptures regularly.
I have a good grasp of the books of the Bible (in both Old & New Testament).
I know what I believe (doctrines) about the Christian faith.
I am often challenged by Scriptures to live faithfully to God in the world.
I take comfort/ instructions from Scriptures when I face struggles/ concerns of life.
CLOSEI rely on God daily through time in prayer for myself, others and the church.
I thank God frequently for His faithfulness and answers to prayer.
I pray regularly with other Christians, including at CG or church prayer meetings.
I listen to God through the practice of extended silence and solitude weekly.
I understand and practise Sabbath-keeping weekly.
I understand and practise the principles of spiritual warfare.
I pray according to the Spirit on different occasions with different requests.
CLOSEI feel cared for by the church community (e.g. connecting through visits and calls.)
I feel comfortable to share my personal issues with someone in the church.
I am regular in attendance at a CARE Group.
I visit or connect with a few other believers regularly to encourage them.
I am able to resolve conflicts biblically and lovingly within my CARE Group.
I am prepared to or do speak truth lovingly into the lives of my spiritual friends.
I welcome others to speak truth into my life or ask about my mental health.
CLOSEI put God’s calling for me as a spouse, parent and/ or child as first priority over work.
I pray for and/ or with my family every week.
I spend extended personal time with my spouse, kids and/or parents every week. *
I spend time teaching my children about God every week. *
I enjoy what I do at my workplace/ school as God’s intended station for me. **
I seek to contribute positively to my workplace/ school through Christian values. **
I seek to reach out to my colleagues/ schoolmates through my conduct and speech.
* Those without kids/ spouse, please put ‘3.’
** For homemakers, your “office” would refer to your home.
CLOSEI know my spiritual gift(s) and preferred area(s) of ministry.
I regularly exercise my spiritual gift(s) to serve within or without the church.
I feel refreshed and connected with God through my service.
I am committed to serve in 1-3 areas in the church. *
I serve joyfully and humbly, as an expression of love for God.
I am well equipped with needed skills to be effective in my area of service.
I am willing to step out of the comfort zone to serve in any area of need.
* If you are not serving or serving in more than 3 areas in the church, your score should be low as you may be over-extending yourself, which may lead to burn out.
CLOSEI am conscious about having a good testimony with pre-believers.
I am praying for the salvation of a few pre-believing friends/ family members.
I know how to share the Gospel and/ or my personal testimony in a simple way.
I share the Gospel with non-Christians when opportunity arises.
I am actively involved in our church’s outreach to our Good Neighbour Initiatives.
I am able to nurture a new believer to grow spiritually.
I am regularly involved in praying, giving and/or going for missions work overseas.
CLOSEI meet with a peer or mentor regularly to be discipled and to seek spiritual guidance.
I have learnt/ am learning to disciple others personally.
I pray for the people I am helping to grow and nurture as disciples.
I spend time regularly helping one or a few disciples grow in Jesus Christ.
I encourage and challenge these disciples to in turn, nurture other disciples of Christ.
I help them work through questions and difficulties in their disciple-making process.
I help these disciples become intentional in helping others make other disciples.
CLOSEAs you consider growing in the eight areas described in this inventory, it is important to focus on 1-2 areas at a time, so as not to be overwhelmed. In these 1-2 areas, pick out 1-2 suggestions in the Toolbox that may interest and help you, and persevere in them.
You are encouraged to share with or get assistance from any one of the church staff team members, church leaders, CARE Group leaders.
Download the Planning Exercise template here.